• Looks
    • Winter
    • Spring
    • Summer
    • Fall
  • My Kind Of Sweet Home
  • Beauty
    • Skincare
    • Hair
    • Makeup
  • Motherhood
    • #momlife
    • Pregnancy
      • Bump Updates
    • Postpartum
  • Shop My Instagram + IG Stories
    • Instagram
  • Shop Our House
    • MUDROOM
    • KITCHEN
    • MY HOME OFFICE
    • PLAYROOM
  • 2020 Holiday Gift Guide
    • Gift Guide | For The Guy Who Has Everything
    • Gift Guide | For Him Under $250
    • Holiday Gift Guide | Stocking Stuffers For Him
    • Gift Guide | Baby’s First Christmas Gift Ideas
    • Gift Guide | Toddler Gift Ideas
    • Gift Guide | Preschoolers Gift Ideas
    • Gift Guide | For Big Kids
    • Gift Guide | Play For All Ages

my kind of sweet

Normalizing the #momlife struggle. finding joy, humor + style in the chaos...

Uncategorized

Enough.

January 8, 2021

Featured image credit: @rickfrausto

Hi, sweet friends.

First, how are you? How are you feeling?

I am sad. Anxious. Scared. Mad. Hopeful.

I hadn’t planned on posting anything today. I just haven’t been in the right mind space for it since the attack on our Capitol on Wednesday. Sharing outfits or home decor seems hollow. Trivial. Maybe even wrong.

I realized though, that I want to make sure that my thoughts on the riots, led by the President of The United States, are represented here.

It’s important to me, now more than ever, to denounce the actions of President Trump, the rioters and anyone who has spread the blatant disinformation of a stolen election.

If not for you, my readers, then for my children. I’m not sure if this blog will exist in 10 years (will blogs even be a thing then?), but in case it does, I want my children to be able to read that their mama stood up against the dark forces in our country, with President Trump at the top of that list.

And before you comment that you “don’t come here for politics” and I should “stick to talking about clothes and home decor,” I need you to know something:

This is not about politics. It hasn’t been for a long time.

I understand if we disagree about political issues and I welcome constructive conversations about such topics.

THIS IS NOT THAT.

It’s enough.

He must go.

by suzanne 
7 Comments

About suzanne

View all posts by suzanne

Related Posts

  • Labor Day Sales Round Up
  • Swim Coverups Under $25
  • Wearing + Wanting | January
  • Classic Fall Layers
previous article: Nursery Accent Wall | Before + After
next article: Activewear + Fitness Favorites

Comments

  1. Erin says: January 8, 2021 at 9:21 am

    I agree and thank you for speaking up.

    Reply
    • suzanne says: January 8, 2021 at 9:50 am

      Thank you so much, Erin.

      Reply
  2. Allison says: January 9, 2021 at 2:02 pm

    You are so my people! Thank you for being so real and speaking your truth.

    Reply
  3. Jamie says: January 9, 2021 at 9:13 pm

    Thanks for letting people know where you stand. We all know what it means when people stay silent or post generic “there’s too much hate in the world” platitudes.

    Reply
  4. Trischa Wass says: January 9, 2021 at 10:50 pm

    I completely agree!!! I have great respect for you not worrying about maybe stepping on some toes. Because WRONG is WRONG and we all should say ENOUGH! 🙂

    Reply
  5. Laurie Smith says: January 9, 2021 at 11:43 pm

    Brave post, good for you. 1000% agree. 🙌 January 20th can’t get here soon enough.

    Reply
  6. arlene says: January 10, 2021 at 10:47 am

    Yes, it’s long overdue!

    Reply

Leave Your Comments Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Recipe Rating




HI! I’M SUZANNE…

After working as a fashion executive for almost a decade, I’m now a stay at home mama to 3 kids and live on the North Shore of Chicago. I spend my days shopping online, decorating my new home and trying to get in a good workout, all while trying to play with my kids and getting the baby to sleep. Mom life is hard, but it can be sweet… XO

  • View mykindofsweetblog’s profile on Facebook
  • View mykindofsweet’s profile on Twitter
  • View mykindofsweet’s profile on Instagram
  • View suzanneknower’s profile on Pinterest

SHOP MY INSTAGRAM + STORIES

Sign up and follow along!

Gain access to the exclusive private Facebook group and connect with other stylish mamas! Plus tips, tricks, giveaways + more!

Subscribe to:

WINTER FAVORITES

BEAUTY FAVORITES

My Kind of Sweet - Finding Style In Motherhood

Popular Posts

  • How To: Beachy Waves For Fine Hair + My Favorite Hair Products
    How To: Beachy Waves For Fine Hair + My Favorite Hair Products
  • 10 "Lazy" Mom Outfits That Are Still Stylish (No Denim Allowed)
    10 "Lazy" Mom Outfits That Are Still Stylish (No Denim Allowed)
  • Botox: Advice, Regrets And Before + After
    Botox: Advice, Regrets And Before + After
  • 3 Work From Home Outfit Ideas
    3 Work From Home Outfit Ideas
  • 20 Outfits For STAYING HOME
    20 Outfits For STAYING HOME

Archives

Ahalogy Badge Everywhere

DISCLOSURE

My Kind of Sweet is part of several affiliate advertising programs. This means that if you click and/or make a purchase through certain links, I may make a commission. All opinions are my own. For collaborations + advertising opportunities, please contact mykindofsweet@gmail.com

mykindofsweet

Sharing #momlife one outfit, cup of coffee + imperfection at a time.  Also home decor #mykindofsweethome +
@thesobermomlife bc wine doesn’t help. 🖤

suzanne
My caption game is weak tonight (I blame the kids My caption game is weak tonight (I blame the kids bc #momlife), so here’s what I’ve got:  One of my fav winter coats is on sale! It’s flattering and not bulky but super cozy + warm. 🙌🏻 I’m wearing XS.  ALSO (and more importantly), swipe to see Baby Gray tonight trying to say “I love you.” 😍😍  It really is all in the little moments, isn’t it? 🖤  Shop this pic here —> http://liketk.it/36d9Q + follow me in the LTK app for exclusive content 😘
Stop saying this is the “new normal.”     Stop saying this is the “new normal.”  
 
This is not normal. None of this feels normal. And it shouldn’t.  
 
It is not normal to be isolated, away from family and friends.  
 
It is not normal to carry the mental load of keeping our families safe from an invisible virus.  
 
It is not normal to work from home, while also taking care of little ones and trying to manage e-learning.  
 
It is not normal to have to choose between our mental health and our physical health.  
 
It is not normal to have our lives put on hold for 10+ months.  
 
This. Is. Not. Normal.  
 
If you are struggling through this time, THAT is normal. 
 
If your breakdowns are more frequent. If you feel overwhelmed. If you are bone tired. If your mind races with anxiety and if depression weighs you down.  
 
THAT is normal.  
 
We are living through a pandemic. Go easy on yourself and remember that survival is the goal.  
 
That’s it.
Literally the only surface of my home that is not Literally the only surface of my home that is not currently covered in toys or STUFF. See stories for real life 👀🤦🏼‍♀️  
  
It’s impeachment eve, y’all. How are you feeling?? I still can’t concentrate on anything else and my anxiety is at like a 16 (out of 10) but other than that it’s all good. 🙄 I’ll be glued to the TV all day tomorrow to watch history. Anyone else??  
  
(These cherry branches are the pink version of the ones I have in our kitchen.  They’re so pretty + a best seller. Shop our entryway decor here —> http://liketk.it/35NEu + follow me in the LTK app for exclusive content) 🖤 #mykindofsweethome
Anyone else finding it impossible to concentrate o Anyone else finding it impossible to concentrate on ANYTHING today?? 🤦🏼‍♀️ For real. Daily tasks. Work. Yoga. It was rough.  
  
But WAIT. There is one thing I’ve been able to waste time thinking about: How do they write off Samantha in the new Sex And The City??? 🤔 So, what you do think?? And will you miss her?? 👇🏻 
 
This lounge set is as soft as butter and I wear it at least once a week. (And by once I mean twice.) It’s less than $60 🙌🏻 Wearing XS. Also my slippers are back in stock! Hands down my favorite pair. 😍 Shop it all here —> http://liketk.it/35K4B
Sunday morning. Baby in a basket. 🖤     #my Sunday morning. Baby in a basket. 🖤  
 
#mykindofsweethome 
 
 Shop this post here —> http://liketk.it/35BSr or at the link in my bio + follow me in the LTK app for exclusive content 😘
Idk, it feels like a good time to post a photo of Idk, it feels like a good time to post a photo of progress. 😉 Swipe to see Gray’s nursery before we painted the black accent wall... 🖤 
 
I’m sharing this post later than I thought based on the week’s horrific events, but I’m excited to finally share Baby Gray’s nursery transformation! It’s a wonder what a little paint will do.  
 
We used Benjamin Moore Black Jack and it’s the perfect warm black. The other walls are Benjamin Moore Paper White. All of the details + links are on mykindofsweet.com 🖤  Shop this post in the LTK app or at the link in my bio 😘
 
#mykindofsweethome
Hi, sweet friends. Checking in. How are you doing? Hi, sweet friends. Checking in. How are you doing?  
   
My heart is heavy. My anxiety is high. I’m exhausted. But still...hopeful. It’s a rollercoaster, right?    
   
I’ve been sharing a lot on stories since the riots at the Capitol and while it’s scary to stand up for what I believe in, I ALWAYS end up feeling like it’s the right thing.    
   
And if you’re new here, HI! I’m so glad you’re here. Normally, I keep it a bit lighter (😉) and share my style, home and #momlife truths. But, I also don’t shy away from talking about the hard things...   
   
OK, off to take a break from the madness and catch up on Housewives.  
 
Will you let me know if they either invoke the 25th or impeach??? Thanks! 😉
Sometimes I like to keep my home decor simple, bu Sometimes I like to keep my home decor simple,  but sometimes it’s more of an over do it or do it over type situation. These cherry blossom branches are a choice and I’m loving them. 🙌🏻  
  
Also I’ve officially decided to say screw it to the IG posting rules and I’m share back to back photos of my kitchen. Who knows what I’ll do next?! 😎  
  
OK. Off to watch Steve Kornacki do the damn thing. 🤩🙌🏻💙🤞🏻 #georgiaonmymind 
  
Shop this pic here —> http://liketk.it/35i3I or at the link in my bio + follow me in the LTK app for exclusive content 🖤 #mykindofsweethome
New year, new kitchen stools.   I love seeing h New year, new kitchen stools. 
 
I love seeing how just small adjustments can make big changes in our home. I swapped out our old stools (they are ivory, from our old house and just didn’t work with the white kitchen) with black stools and I love the difference.  
 
The only down side is that Gray can climb these. So, there’s that. 🤦🏼‍♀️  
 
Swipe to see the before 👀 Shop this post here —> http://liketk.it/35ekB or at the link in my bio + follow me in the LTK app for exclusive content 😘  
 
#mykindofsweethome
Our day started like this, and ended with my middl Our day started like this, and ended with my middle girl in the emergency room with what we thought was a broken finger. (It’s not! Thank God.)  
 
I accidentally crunched my girl’s fingers in our front door tonight and I’m not sure I’ve ever felt so badly in my life.  
 
There is no pain like when one of my children is hurt. But to think that I (accidentally) caused that pain? My heart hurt in a way I’ve never experienced.  
 
My mama instincts took over and I did all I could to take care of my girl - snuggles, frozen peas for her finger and Frozen on the TV until The Mister got home and took her to the ER.  
 
The second they walked out the door, my tears fell. I called my mom. I texted my friend. Then I hopped on Stories to share that I felt like the worst mom. I felt guilty and just so damn awful. And as always, you comforted me and helped me feel like I was OK.  
 
Thank you to everyone who sent me messages sharing your own stories, and to those of you who reminded me of grace and accidents and being human.  
 
My girl is back home now. She’s all smiles with new stickers from the hospital and cards from her big sister, proudly showing off her little splint on her finger. She is brave and full of life and I couldn’t feel more grateful.  
 
This post is for the mama who has felt the pain of screwing up. (So, it’s for all of us.) I don’t have any advice but to encourage you to talk to your people. Don’t keep it in. Cry. Give yourself grace. And just keep loving those little ones.  
 
Ok. Off to snuggle with my girl.  
 
🖤
Happy New Years Eve, sweet friends! ✨     Be Happy New Years Eve, sweet friends! ✨  
 
Before I fall asleep and fail to make it to midnight, I wanted to take a chance to thank you for all you’ve provided this year. Instagram gets a bad rap, but it truly does feel like we’ve made it through this tough year together.  
 
From our early morning chats over on stories during the first few weeks of the pandemic, to your support when I opened up about my sobriety journey, to our collective joyous sigh when Biden/Harris saved democracy, the community we have created in this corner of the internet is a true bright spot of 2020 for me.  
 
Thank you, thank you. For allowing me to be real and share how tough and beautiful it all can be.  
 
Cheers (sparkling water) to 2021! Here’s to being brave, kind and full of hope.  
 
🖤 
 
(PS - This pic is from January 2020 and LOOK HOW LITTLE 😍) 📷 @ironandhoney
I’m in bed at 830pm, posting a photo of my mudro I’m in bed at 830pm, posting a photo of my mudroom, excited that some of my favorite organization items are on sale, getting ready to rewatch my show. Don’t say I don’t know how to party. 👵🏻 🎉 
 
(If you get as excited about home organization as I do, you can shop my faves + this post here —-> http://liketk.it/34QWt or at the link in my bio + follow me in the LTK app for exclusive content) 🖤 #mykindofsweethome
Load More... Follow on Instagram
This error message is only visible to WordPress admins

Error: There is no connected account for the user 1678150298 Feed will not update.

Copyright © 2021 · Theme by Georgia Lou Studios, customized by Meyne

Copyright © 2021 · Prima Donna on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in

Lost your style in the chaos of motherhood?

Sign up to get my 5 simple tips to elevate your mama style!
(It's easier than you think.)

Subscribe to:
{"cookieName":"wBounce","isAggressive":false,"isSitewide":true,"hesitation":"2","openAnimation":"fadeIn","exitAnimation":false,"timer":"","sensitivity":"","cookieExpire":"4","cookieDomain":"","autoFire":"","isAnalyticsEnabled":false}